moralstoryofsinigang

Cheating is a Poison and the only Antidote is Forgiveness

“Sinigang “written by Marby Villaceran

Life is like cooking sinigang. You need to prepare the right ingredients to achieve the desire taste. I felt a little bit related to the story because I experienced to met the woman who tried to ruined our family. The pain is very unforgettable and never in my dreams that I imagine that the strength of our family will be tested by God. I can see how traumatic that event for Lisa and how it feel to justified to hate to her father for the hurt he caused her and her mother .Being a daddy’s girl I know how devastated Lisa as when she found out about the affair of her dad. I will never forget the scenario when a woman knelt down in front of me and my mom, saying sorry that she tried to seduced my dad. I was just about 14 years old that time but I am matured enough to understand things around because i know that I was raised by a strong and educated woman which is my mom. I remained kind hearted and I wished that woman have a good life, never did she heard anything bad from me and my mom.

It is really hard to forgive ,the only thing for us to do is to decide if we are going to spend our life harboring feelings of hate which would have a tremendous negative impact on our whole life and intimate relationships or we’re going to let go and live our life free of hate and pain.

Regarding forgiving for your own sake…when you give yourself adequate time to process forgiveness, and avoid forgiving too quickly, it will help you calm the sadness and anger you’ve been feeling. Forgiveness doesn’t mean that you have to approve of what your Dad did to hurt you. It doesn’t mean forgetting the pain and trauma his affair caused. It doesn’t mean that you dismiss the pain he caused your mother and your whole family .It doesn’t even mean that you have to renew a relationship with him. Yet, since our Dad is still our Dad we should try to give a second chance and the relationship that we must renew is our lives with God at the center.

It’s hard to let go of those feelings. Nonetheless, forgiving someone for cheating will actually benefit the faithful person more than the cheater. The anger we feel after infidelity is like a poison that lives in us. Forgiveness is the antidote and the only way to move on.

Healthy Weeknight Meals

Cooking can sometimes feel like a chore at the end of a busy day. It’s often tempting to throw a ready meal in the oven or call for take out. But preparing a simple and healthy family meal doesn’t have to be hard or time-consuming. Here are some quick wholesome dishes that you and your family will love. They can even be prepared in advance.

Better than Poutine

I know, what could be better that a steaming plate of fries, gravy and cheese curd? Fries, gravy, cheese curd and bacon, that’s what! Throw in some fresh shallots, chilli, and a splash of roasted bone marrow and duck gravy, and we turn this popular French-Canadian dish into a something sublime.

Breakfast at my House

During the week we’re often walking out the door with a coffee in one hand and slice of toast in the other, but on weekends breakfast is never rushed. It’s a late affair, sometimes spilling over to lunch, with lots of reading and chatter in between courses of fruits, poached eggs, honey and toast. One of our favorite things we like to serve when friends are visiting are buckwheat blueberry pancakes.

Roasted Pumpkin Soup

There’s nothing better than a warm bowl of pumpkin soup on a cold autumn day. Combine your roasted pumpkin with some onion, garlic, vegetable broth, and a few spices, and give it some time to simmer away. Pair it with a few slices of fresh bread to turn it into something sublime.